Day: November 16, 2004

So we’re back. The trip was pretty successful. We got to see almost everyone we wanted to see. Tom’s mom, Geri seems better than I had expected but she is still quite sick. We’re waiting to hear from the doctors about her prognosis. Tom is having a lot of trouble dealing with his mom’s illness. We wants to be there, I know. I really regret coming down here every time I go back to PA, especially when Tom gets all down on his job. He’s working on a big idea to go back up there and live with his mom and take care of her. I don’t know how do-able this is. I would have a lot of trouble finding a job there on short notice and I’m not very comfortable with living apart for a long time.
This is tough to deal with. You never know what choices you will regret later.